That's fair. Though if I'm being honest, it's a bit ironic that whenever I speak out like this, no one who defends their mix can ever tell me who their reputable breeder is.. which is why I can say that I have never seen one.
When family members had looked to me to find an ethical poodle mix breeder, I was appalled at what I had found after combing site after site. Claims that their dogs didn't need brushing, and that their fur was superior over a Poodle's because apparently a straight fur influence made it maintenance-free. Which is.. far from the truth. The opposite, really. Most groomers have actually began to implement a higher charge for "doodles" specifically because they tend to come in terrible condition, which is A) because in general, a soft, thin, high shedding double coat is not usually compatible with a single, coarse, curly one, therefore poodle mixes have a tendency to matt much more quickly and more easily. Even Poodles have large variations in coat quality, it's not so one note. Which also brings up the point that because most poodle mix breeders tend to have poorly bred stock, it can be said it's unlikely their poodles will have high quality coats.... and B) because many people are lied to about the maintenance that is required of a mutt like this.
I really think it would do this conversation good to remove a fondness for our dogs from this. My own dog is a Shih Tzu x Yorkie, a popular fad mix, and I adore her. But she is also an example of unpredictability. I have had the pleasure of meeting many well bred Shih Tzus and Yorkshires and I can say that her temperament is of neither. Yes, she is awfully sweet, but she has always been a very nervy dog that is massively independent, both traits that have never characteristics of either breed. She will always be one of my heart dogs, but I can acknowledge she is not a well bred dog.
Likewise, I have noticed poodle mix breeders like to advertise their parent dogs as low energy couch potatoes. Both retrievers and Poodles are supposed to be high energy hunting dogs.
Anyways, for anyone who likes the look of "doodles", but would like to have a much easier time finding a well bred pup, I will always recommend Barbets. Yes, they look a bit goofy, but they are absolutely adorable when their eyes are cleaned up. Here is a fawn Barbet.



They were bred to be more laid back, calmer, but still playful. I have loved my mentor's Barbets, they are so agreeable, sweet, and personable. They come in fawn, white, black, brown, black piebald, brown piebald, fawn piebald, gray, and gray piebald.


As for small breed, Havanese and Bichons have been my favorite. They are hypoallergenic, and just have amazing, giving temperaments.