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[~EquestrianHammy~]

Yeah idk lol. I think it depends, but in general spiders don't need that much space yeah
 
5-10gal is perfect for most tarantulas though- (i would do 10)
3 is way too small imo o.o (for an adult at least)
but um idk lol

It was a baby that was the size if my pinky fingernail.

[Tater]

It was a baby that was the size if my pinky fingernail.

Oh a baby makes sense lol

I thought we were talking full grown

[~EquestrianHammy~]

Oh a baby makes sense lol
I thought we were talking full grown

Ok, haha! She has a full grown tarantula too, anyway, do jumping spooders get stressed by too much space?
Like, my mom was asking I could put it in my plant terrarium, and I said no.

Wait- i have a 1.5 gallon tankkkkkkk...

Edited by ~EquestrianHammy~, 02 December 2020 - 09:03 AM.

[~EquestrianHammy~]

I want one of these,

Or one of these ones.

[~EquestrianHammy~]

Oh a baby makes sense lol
I thought we were talking full grown

Look above. ^

[Tater]

Cute <3

[~EquestrianHammy~]

Cute <3

Now I haft a convince my mom. Also, I can’t get one till spring, because I think it is prob too cold to ship rn.

[~EquestrianHammy~]

I need help convincing my mom. She says that I can’t have any pets until I can realize that death happens.(princess cuz I was like super paranoid and stuff today) um, halp. She says I can research them, and she’s gonna reconsider once I have gotten over buddy.

[Tater]

Nice (I think)

I hope you get one

[~EquestrianHammy~]

Nice (I think)

I hope you get one

Halp me convince herrrrrrrrr! Pleaseeeeeeee?
I think I might be able to in the spring, when I’ve stopped crying about buddy every single day. ;-;
Maybe
She said “no more pets until you can handle it when they die”, but when my bettas died, I was fine.
And she seems to be a bit worried that I am gonna get to attached... she seemed weirded out when I said that during Covid, buddy was mah best friend.
I think I will be able to convince her to let me in the spring.
Until then, I must research, but there are like no resources.

[Tater]

Ummmmmm

Have you found any breeders near you?
(Idk I suck at convincing parents, I just beg for years until I finally get a pet which worked twice in my life and then we had to give both of those pets away due to allergies ;-;)

[~EquestrianHammy~]

Ummmmmm

Have you found any breeders near you?
(Idk I suck at convincing parents, I just beg for years until I finally get a pet which worked twice in my life and then we had to give both of those pets away due to allergies ;-;)

I found one that ships to Canada. https://worldofphids.com/shop/ols/products/phidippus-mystaceus-adult-female
It is out of stock, but even if my mom lets me, it won’t be till spring, sooooo....

[Tater]

Hmmm

Well idk
;-;I would say try to find ways to 'get over' buddy's death as you put it. It's natural to be sad and feel grief
but I think your mom is worried you're going to get into an unhealthy amount of grief which is not good for anyone's mental health

So um just try and show her that you are ok
You can still be sad ofc though

Idk of this makes sense ;-;

[~EquestrianHammy~]

Hmmm

Well idk
;-;I would say try to find ways to 'get over' buddy's death as you put it. It's natural to be sad and feel grief
but I think your mom is worried you're going to get into an unhealthy amount of grief which is not good for anyone's mental health

So um just try and show her that you are ok
You can still be sad ofc though

Idk of this makes sense ;-;

Oki. Thank you.


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Edited by ~EquestrianHammy~, 02 December 2020 - 10:54 PM.

[~EquestrianHammy~]

Hmmm

Well idk
;-;I would say try to find ways to 'get over' buddy's death as you put it. It's natural to be sad and feel grief
but I think your mom is worried you're going to get into an unhealthy amount of grief which is not good for anyone's mental health

So um just try and show her that you are ok
You can still be sad ofc though

Idk of this makes sense ;-;

Guess what my mom said?!

Spoiler

. Long story short, she said: - yes, I will definitely consider you getting one. It sounds like a great pet! As long as it doesn’t get lost in the house!

I’m so excited! When she says something like that, she always means yes! Yay!