I completely understand she's having a hard time. So am I. Not trying to be that mean person, but here's the truth: people have it way worse than you do. There's people with no homes, no future. No money. No food. Nothing. We're lucky. Whenever people have a bad day, they tend to think that it couldn't get any worse, and that they have it really bad. But nope. There's people that have it worse. My friend's family is low on money, and her dad just got laid off. He's not working, and her mom works at a grocery store. They can barely afford to feed their dog. Their breakfast, lunch, and dinner consist of ramen, ramen, and ramen. She has a beautiful voice, but she doesn't have enough money to pay for lessons. They live in a very small house compared to most people. It has one bathroom. The mother and my friend both have foot issues and knee issues. She barely can run because of this.
I'm trying to paint a picture here. I know you have it bad, and it feels like it can't possibly get worse, but look. They're happy. They live wonderful joyful lives, even throughout their struggles.
Everybody has bad days. And some have really bad days. You're lucky. And so am I.
Are you talking to me or Blumenkrone? Because I never said I had a bad day?
Also she’s having a hard time too. Yes people have it worse, but sometimes when people are feeling bad, it leads to bad responses. Sometimes when someone’s having a hard time and another person underestimates it. It can lead to self harm. Right now is a hard time, and I personally don’t think it’s right to compare like this. Yes other people are having hard times, but you don’t know Blumenkrone’s life right now. I’m not trying to take sides or so. But I feel this is a sensitive subject, and talking about it like this can just take things down to a wrong turn and I don’t want that to happen. And this is sort of leading off the course of the subject rn, but I feel like in the beginning she was just trying to justify her actions. She also apologized and this really feels pointless on how a conversation on hermit crabs turned to talk about homeless. My point is. We don’t know her situation rn, but from her posts I can tell her time rn is rough, comparing like this can make things get worse since this is a sensitive subject, and many times it can lead to a wrong path. She apologized and I feel like it should’ve ended there.
Edited by Aurora ♥ Hammy, 22 July 2020 - 05:22 AM.
Please know I’m only trying to make things better, Have a great day and stay safe!
